Chinese New Year Dilemma! How Much Hong Bao Should I Give?

Okies everyone, the time of the year to dish out those big fat red packets ( Hong Bao ) during Chinese New Year is upon us! (If you're a green advocate who prefer to give E-Hong Bao , that's fine too) A chance encounter with a friend who's also newly married inspired this article. Our conversation went something along the line of him lamenting "WAH BRO! This is damn shag. Giving Hong Bao to my in-law side who has like a gazillion little kids made me consider going to JB to avoid the new year gathering!" Nodding away, I replied "Yea bro, I feel you man. Hmmm, I have a few thoughts that inform not just the amount that goes into the Hong Bao, but also how to make you feel better in the act of giving away those monies. Wanna hear me out?" He shrugged and sighed "Sure thing man, go ahead." Given that we're both in the same boat of giving Hong Bao for the first time in our lives, rather than receiving it, I thought I'll just give my two-cen...